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Influence on Men

A woman's hand above a smiling puppet man. Influence on Men

A PRACTICAL AUDIO COURSE

Learn to influence men,
so your words carry weight.

How to hold attention, put what you want across more convincingly
and be heard by men — at work, in negotiations and at home.

5 audio lessons · Lifetime access · 14-day refund

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01 / HOW INFLUENCE WORKS

You speak.
But are you being heard?

He interrupts, brushes a request aside or insists on his own way. You explain again — and your words seem to pass him by. In this course you will work on what makes your delivery more convincing: connection, inner state and voice.

01

PART 1

The Three Steps
of Influence

Discover Alex's three-step framework: prepare your inner state, establish a connection, and introduce a verbal suggestion. Learn where he proposes applying it in everyday conversations.

02

PART 2

State, Voice and
Emotional Connection

Explore how Alex uses relaxation, voice and emotional contact in his approach, and what he means by indirect hypnosis.

03

PART 3

Practising Your
Inner State

Follow a guided relaxation exercise and practise recalling that state with a short mental cue. Alex recommends repeating this exercise daily for one week.

04

PART 4

Maintaining Connection
in Conversation

Practise staying in that state while holding an ordinary conversation and paying attention to the other person's responses. This stage includes another week of practice.

05

PART 5

Voice and
Indirect Suggestions

Learn how Alex distinguishes direct and indirect suggestions, and how he uses pace and vocal emphasis within everyday speech. The final stage introduces a third week of practice.

WHERE YOU MIGHT APPLY IT

01 / AT WORK

A manager
or an interview

Present yourself with more confidence, put the value of your work across, raise a promotion or new terms.

02 / IN NEGOTIATIONS

A client
or a business partner

Hold attention on your proposal and present your position more convincingly when the decision is a man’s to make.

03 / AT HOME

A husband, father,
brother or adult son

Get a request across and make your position harder to overlook in a conversation with a man used to deciding everything his own way.

Influence is a skill that has to be practised. The course works on your delivery and the way you speak; what the other person decides remains theirs to decide.

Alex Bert, course authorCOURSE AUTHOR
INFLUENCE ON MEN

02 / YOUR AUTHOR

Alex
Bert

18 years of experience working with couples

Alex Bert has 18 years of experience working with couples. In this course, he shares various practices—as well as his own approach to internal states, emotional connection, and verbal suggestion—across five audio lessons.

Listen→Try→Practise

At your own pace, with no schedule.

03 / WHAT PARTICIPANTS SAY

Different situations.
Their own experience.

Family01 / 10
“For the first time he actually heard me out and did what I asked.”
Olivia

Olivia

34 years old
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Such a great course! I came here after the programme on getting your husband back — that gave me a solid foundation, but I wanted to learn to influence all the men in my life. And it worked! I managed to settle the stuck question of the inheritance with my brother, calmly and without a row, even though we’d been shouting at each other for six months before that. For the first time he actually heard me out and did what I asked. I got through it in three days, and for that kind of money on the launch offer it’s simply a gift!

Work02 / 10
“This is a real psychological tool.”
Charlotte

Charlotte

49 years old
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I’m writing this because I’m overflowing with emotion. I work in a field where the management is all men. Before, getting a signature or an approval meant weeks of stress. I used literally a couple of the tricks for getting into the right state — and our district architect, the man who turns everyone away, offered me the best possible solution himself! The course costs a laughable 39 bucks and the payoff is worth a million. This is a real psychological tool.

Relationship03 / 10
“My husband went out and bought it for me the very next day”
Charlotte

Charlotte

27 years old
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Girls, for ages I had no idea how to approach my husband and ask him to buy me a Dyson — it isn’t cheap, and he’s a practical man who doesn’t like spending on extras. I got the course on the offer for $39, worked through it over a couple of days and simply used the techniques during a conversation. The result: my husband went out and bought it for me the very next day, and he was pleased to have made me happy on top of that! It’s some kind of magic bordering on hypnosis, it works flawlessly!

Family04 / 10
“My son started coming to me for advice on his own!”
Emma

Emma

55 years old
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At my age it seemed nothing could surprise me any more. But things with my son were hard, he had withdrawn and met any advice with hostility. Thanks to the course I completely changed my intonation, my movements and my inner state. My son started coming to me for advice on his own! Things with my husband have become much softer too, that endless stubbornness is gone. Thank you, Alex, the course is incredibly useful.

Negotiations05 / 10
“I’m a realtor, and after the course I closed two of my toughest deals”
Amelia

Amelia

41 years old
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Honestly? For 39 dollars I wasn’t expecting anything special, I took it purely out of curiosity. But the result is stunning! I’m a realtor, and after the course I closed two of my toughest deals with male clients who had been hesitating for over a month. They really do look at you and want to agree! And they sincerely think it’s their own considered decision. Very powerful material.

Confidence06 / 10
“It gives you incredible confidence!”
Helen

Helen

31 years old
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I got through it in literally a couple of evenings. It’s very convenient that everything is laid out clearly, with no abstract esoterics. The most interesting part is that it isn’t about looks or short skirts. I can be in an ordinary suit with no make-up, but when I use these techniques the men in the office step aside for me, help me with tasks and listen open-mouthed. It gives you incredible confidence!

Work07 / 10
“I simply changed HOW I speak”
Mia

Mia

52 years old
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I bought the course on the offer and haven’t regretted it for a second. At work, a boss who never listened to his staff suddenly approved my project and even gave it a budget, having turned it down three times before. I simply changed HOW I speak and the state I was in when I walked into his office. It works flawlessly! My only regret is that I didn’t have this knowledge twenty years ago.

Negotiations08 / 10
“The main thing is to practise the exercises for at least a couple of weeks, until it becomes a habit.”
Evelyn

Evelyn

38 years old
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Sharing my result: the course paid for itself on the very first day! I managed to negotiate with a supplier (a man nobody could get a discount out of) and secured us exclusive terms. I didn’t believe myself that these psychological tricks would work like that in practice. But they do! The main thing is to practise the exercises for at least a couple of weeks, until it becomes a habit.

Confidence09 / 10
“The feeling of helplessness is gone”
Victoria

Victoria

29 years old
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I saw the $9 offer and took it straight away, I’d wanted to learn to communicate properly with the opposite sex for a long time. The course is amazing! I learned to really influence just about any man, whether it’s a traffic cop, my dad or my boss. It feels as though I’ve become so confident that it doesn’t matter who is in front of me. The feeling of helplessness is gone — the one you get when you need to achieve something and the man digs in and insists on his own way. Now the situation is always under my control.

Work and family10 / 10
“The main takeaway: influence isn’t seduction, it’s sound psychology.”
Sophia

Sophia

45 years old
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The course is excellent. Detailed, clear, easy to get through in a couple of days. The main takeaway: influence isn’t seduction, it’s sound psychology. My husband, with whom things had been strained, has finally stopped digging his heels in, and at work my male colleagues have started offering help with the heavy reports themselves. For such a token price it’s simply a find.

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04 / YOUR NEXT STEP

Let your words
carry weight.

Work through the practices you can use in conversations with a manager, a client, a partner or a man at home. Start with Part 1 and move through the course step by step.

14DAYS

Take your time

If the format does not suit you, contact us within 14 days of purchase and we will refund it.

THE FULL AUDIO COURSEONE PRICE

Influence
on Men

$39
$97−60%one-time payment
  • Five audio lessons, about 25 minutes in total
  • Practices for connection, state and voice
  • Go at your own pace
  • Lifetime access to the material

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BEFORE YOU START

Any
questions?

Which men is this course about?

About speaking with different men: a manager, a client, a business partner, a husband, a father, a brother or an adult son. It is about influence through connection, inner state and delivery — it is not necessarily about flirting or romance.

This is my first time hearing about Alex. Where do I start?

Start with Part 1, then work through the parts in order. Listen to the explanations, try the exercises, and come back to the material to revisit it.

What is included?

Five audio lessons with explanations and exercises — approximately 25 minutes of audio in total. This is self-paced learning from a recording, with exercises to practise.

Is this audio only?

Yes. These audio lessons were adapted from video recordings, so you may occasionally hear references to looking at the screen. Nothing on screen is needed to follow the course.

How long will it take?

The audio runs for about 25 minutes. Alex recommends practising the exercises over three weeks, a week per stage. That is a guideline: access is lifetime, so you can go at your own pace.

How do I get access?

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How does the refund work?

If the format does not suit you, email support within 14 days of purchase and include your order details. Write to support@alexbert.fun. Details are in the refund policy.

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